2021 Peer Pressure Tag

My first tag ever!!!!!!🍻🍻

I was tagged by the very witty and kind sushiiiwithsoysauce! Thank you for tagging me!!!!!!!


Rules

  • Link back to the creator, which is Random Thoughts of My Fandoms.
  • Provide a link to the person who tagged you.
  • Answer all questions honestly
  • Come up with 5 questions of your own. (4 have to be about peer pressure; 1 can be random and about whatever)
  • Tag at least 10 people and provide links to their blog, Please no “you!”
  • Recommend at least 5 books or songs you see everywhere/are very popular that you’ve read or listened to.
  • Use the hashtag #peer pressure tag for easier visibility

Questions

Have you ever been pressured to do something that ended up having a positive affect?

Yes! This happens every single day. I wouldn’t necessarily call it positive, but the results are always positive. Other people don’t really pressure me, if I’m being honest, I pressure myself. I don’t even tell anything to myself like, “gurl you better ace this exam“, or “you’d better do well in that exam”– I don’t do any of that- it’s just innate in me to do my best. If I don’t do my best I get angry and lash out.


If your friend was being pressured into something, How would you help them?

My friends are usually the type of people who are very vocal about things that trouble them- that’s one of the benefits of having straight forward friends- so approaching them about it wouldn’t really be the problem. I wouldn’t tell them to make the peer pressure go away or anything like that, I’d like to help them get rid of the burden. For example, they wanna get better grades or something, I wouldn’t say something like, “Stop pressuring yourself” I’d instead kind of help them study and finish their notes and stuff like that. I’m the type of friend to actually do all of your workload or take away the pain- so I’d probably do something like that.


If you could change one choice you made from being pressured into something, What would it be?

Pretty much nothing? I don’t really regret any of the choices I’ve made/will make. I wouldn’t necessarily change anything, If I like something, then I like to go to the full extent of doing it- no matter how much my health or brain or body gets affected- if i enjoy it or have a purpose to finish it- I’d go all the way in.


Have you ever felt pressure while blogging?

Nah. Not really. I don’t really feel a lot of external pressure, all the pressure I put on myself is 100% innate. I do have the pressure, more like expectation, to write and present it the best I can. To engage well with the people who read everything I post online, and to be nice to everyone who’s nice and appreciative of my writing! Like I said, there’s no pressure for me to write everyday or something like that, your hobby, or even your work for that matter- should be something you enjoy doing, not something your’e forcing yourself to do. If I enjoy what I do, then I’ll automatically make time to do it!


(Random Question) If you had 3 wishes, What would you wish for?

#1 No school- It’s as simple as that, I don’t like school, and therefore I don’t see the point in schools- especially when I won’t even be doing something like Cell diagrams for a living- I don’t see the point in studying so much, honestly. I just want to drown in tons and tons of money, and lay in bed just netflix and chill.

#2 I’d like to wish for all my goals to be accomplished this instant- both personal and professional!

#3 A new laptop, preferably a Mac Book, because Mac Book’s have Garageband in them, and Linux barely has any DAW’s(DAW’s are like music making softwares- the laptop I own, is well, kind of cute but dumb.


Song Recommendations:

  1. Tony Montana by Agustd (the only korean artists i listen to, i think- and yes, agustd is basically suga of bts, you should totally check out his music, like yoongi is insanely talented- it’s a shame if you dismiss his music as ‘boy band music’. if you want recommendations, pls say so in the comments! i’d love to give recs)
  2. hot girl bummer by Blackbear
  3. Jesus in LA by Alec Benjamin(no, I’m not a Christian, and it’s not a Christian song- it’s a vibe tbh.)
  4. Slide by H.E.R. ft YG
  5. 2 on by Tinashe ft ScHoolboy Q
  6. Solo by Frank Ocean

My Questions for you

  1. How do you combat pressure?
  2. Now, how do you think a person should combat pressure?
  3. What do you think is the worst type of pressure a person could face? Any type of pressure qualifies!
  4. This is kind of an open-ended question- do you think peer pressure is good or bad?
  5. (Random Question) Will you think about tagging me for another tag(say yes for brownie points!!)? Also, what do you think about pineapple on pizza?

Friends I tagged-

<btw im so sorry if we’ve never interacted, if i tag you- that basically means I’m a secret fan of yours! and that you should hit me up asap>

Saritzy (aka zara<3)

Allonsythornraxx (aka one of the best blogers on this platform)

Simpleek (aka Simply Geek!)

Riddhi! (aka the first blogger I ever followed)

Silver Stone (aka a fellow chocolate and cheese enthusiast )

Jessica (aka wise words)

Introverted Thoughts (aka the aesthetic i wish i had)

youraveragelazygirl (she calls herself lazy but she motivates me!)

theyorkshiredreamer (beauty in its best form, if you ask me)

lily!!! (i discovered her blog right before my exam today and daym- i tried to read all her posts because they were all just so wow and as a result, I ended up joining the microsoft teams meeting 10 minutes late lol)

AND, YOU!!!!!!!!!!

<no, this is totally not an excuse that my introverted ass couldn’t befriend more people, totally not>

Participate in this tag, and TAG MEE!!! I’d love to see all your answers and ramblings<3

btw i have a lot more exciting posts coming up- a webtoon review, a song review, a month review and a veryy interesting life update- also, i might need your advice for something too….

<yes this an angel sign, that if you don’t follow this blog, you could be missing out on some serious things and you might miss the tea too>

i’ll see ya’ll in my next post ig,

asic signing off,


you should go follow my twitter for more quality content and maybe one day i might tweet something funny eventually : https://twitter.com/heyitsasic

go read all my other posts and mass like them: https://officiallyhaven.wordpress.com/posts/

go follow my aesthetically curated pinterest, also btw i hit 1.6K!! thank you so much yall<3 it means so much to me<3, like daym when i woke up i hit 1.5K and then after my exam gets over i check my stats and im like 1.6K? wtf?!!: https://www.pinterest.com/asictheticz/

i sometimes condense my posts on to my medium page too: https://heyitsasic.medium.com/

no instagram because instagram thinks i’m suspicious

planning to release original music on my soundcloud soon(in like a hundred years)-https://soundcloud.com/heyitsasic


19 thoughts on “2021 Peer Pressure Tag

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  1. Hello I hope your doing well, I like the way you write so I’m going to follow you and i love both types of tea so I’m going to be going in and out of your post and sushiwithsoysauce, you guys are great writers I hope one day I can get the time to write like this. Well good luck on your journey and I’ll try to read as much as I can.

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  2. I so relate to your answer of helping a friend! I loved the questions you answered and asked, I have a feeling I’ll end up answering both sets😂
    Gosh, a secret fan?! I’m like the least aesthetic person you’ll ever meet so I’m shocked but grateful you think that!
    Thank you so much for tagging me, asic!

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    1. hehe my introverted self could totally relate with every single blog post you wrote! hehe I’d love it if you answered both sets lol! you’re so aesthetic and your blog screams ‘comfort’ and ‘chill’!!:)

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  3. Well, first off, congratulations on your first nomination, that’s awesome!!! Second off, I totally agree with no school!
    I had no clue I was the first blogger you followed, I don’t know why I feel honoured😅😅
    Thanks for the nomination, although it might take some time for me to get to it!

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    1. hehe thank you!! You were the first blogger i ever encountered on here hehe, i remember reading like half of all your posts and loving the vibe, i liked the ‘answering bookish questions from google’ post so much, and the idea was so unique- and i was like WOW!<3 and yes, no school supremacy!!

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  4. This is awesome! you’re such a good writer for 13. You’re funny and interesting. I wish I had been more like you at 13! I was an awkward, insecure weirdo who had been through too much trauma haha.

    Also, I love “hot girl bummer”! I guess a lot of people don’t like it or think it’s a rude song? I don’t know. It’s good. I will have to check out those other songs.

    Thanks for doing this! Enjoyed your answers.

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    1. Hi again!! Thank you for the compliment hehe, I just turned 14 in Jan! I guess I kind of use writing and music to let out all the feelings I guess:) Yes, “hot girl bummer” is such a good song, it was a hit and that’s how I found out about Blackbear, and all his songs are just so good! Thanks for reading<3

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  5. Thanks for the tag! I’ll answer your questions here, if you don’t mind:

    1. How do you combat pressure?

    For me I have learned to trust and listen to what’s right for me and not let anyone else pressure me into anything I don’t want to do. Depending on what it is I’ll hear them out first but then go off on my own to really think about what that person is asking me to do. Basically I need a quiet spot to be alone.

    2. Now, how do you think a person should combat pressure?

    Going back to my answer above, I would say listen to your heart. At the end of the day you are your own person and no one should ever tell you or pressure you into doing things that aren’t aligned with your beliefs and values.

    3. What do you think is the worst type of pressure a person could face? Any type of pressure qualifies!

    I think one where someone starts with, “If you love me, then you’ll do X for me” or ” If you’re my friend, then you’ll do Y for me.” I guess the kind of pressure I’m talking about is the guilt trip kind. That kind is really the worst and highly manipulative. In my opinion if any partner or friend does this to you then they really don’t love or care about you as much as they say they do. This person would respect your wishes, even if they don’t agree with you or if you’re not willing to do what they’re asking of you.

    4. This is kind of an open-ended question- do you think peer pressure is good or bad?

    I mean if it’s a playful kind of peer pressure, where no one is getting hurt or will push you to go against what’s comfortable for you, then I think it’s not bad at all? If it’s the type where it’ll compromise you in any sort of way, cause harm or is emotional blackmail, then peer pressure is bad.

    5. (Random Question) Will you think about tagging me for another tag(say yes for brownie points!!)? Also, what do you think about pineapple on pizza?

    If I were to get tagged on another chain type of post, then sure! And honestly, I’m not a fan of pineapple on pizza. I can eat it if that’s all that is available but it’s not something I actively seek out.

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